Are you Struggling to Overcome Past Bad Experiences or Events in Life?

Are you struggling to overcome your Past

Life is a learning process, so in this process, we come across many unpleasant experiences that we may have done to us or someone knowingly or unknowingly or 

It can be bad experiences with some situations or persons, or something related to losing your goals or beloved ones…

When such situations happen, these memories suck us completely into it so intensely. 

To get out of this bad past or experiences, for some takes a lifetime, while some are losing life not being able to handle it, while some keep repenting and get stuck in life without any progress… are these that worthy is the question? Also, is it something negative to have such a bad past or experiences? When we are in such situations, people around us console us telling us to forget this bad past and focus on the present and future! So the point is only when they face such a situation they will understand the impact of it…

We, too, might have told our friends when they face such situations. But when it happens to us, we will be in the listening seat to hear the exact words from someone else… 

Here I Don’t mean that those who console are wrong or you are right! Both are right and wrong. Are bad experiences a boon or bane?

If so, what is right, and what should be our course of action? 

I feel that a bad past is a boon, rather than feeling it as a sin. Because think when there are many out there around you, why is it happening to you, not someone else? It means life has some special lessons to teach you, and you are a special kid…

So, we shouldn’t treat bad experiences as something negative. So, here I don’t mean the pain you have gone through shouldn’t have happened. It should happen. You have the courage to go through it, so only it happened. Pain is the most beautiful thing in life. It teaches you more than what happiness or joy can teach you. So, I think we should be more honest with our pain. Only then honesty in life comes out… So, we should bear the pain of bad experiences with honesty than cursing ourselves….  

So one may ask, isn’t it a waste of time and life? I would say no! Pain with awareness is what is needed, and in most cases, this is what happens. This is the path of wisdom, but society has underestimated odd experiences and pain as very negative, calling it incapability…  which is why its beauty is not realized. Getting lost in this society misunderstanding, some people lose control and even lose a life… Most of the suicides or depressions result from this misunderstanding of society enforced on an individual. So my dear friends, don’t consider bad experiences as something negative Rather, think as something blessing in your life to not repeat in the future. Never get lost in feeling sorry for what has happened. Instead, focus on what to do.

 I am sure, when you are in that sorrow, even though you are aware of what right thing to be done … You will be failing to implement the corrective measure. Remember, it’s not your weakness not to implement it, or your past made you weak! 

Instead, realize that you are trying your best to bring all your energies together to give the best shot for you to raise. In the process of providing the best and perfect start, we forget that we should take the first step forward to give the best shot… Sitting and thinking every night to provide the best shot or step, but sadly, there is no good time or best shot, and it never comes… Finally, you will end up in another disappointment that you cannot implement a solution even though you know it! This is something wrong than what we did in the past.

Making the right choice is excellent, but you are making strong excuses not to execute those choices, and moreover, we convince ourselves to justify these by saying it’s because of a bad past I became so! Is this what our past has taught us?? We are already suffering for what happened past. Now we are creating another past that will disturb our present and future. How many days should we keep making excuses… My dear friends, I don’t say forget the past. Instead, I would say carry your past as a treasure to make sure you don’t repeat it in the future and make your life beautiful… So herewith what intent you take your past matters! 

Let us be conscious that unknowingly we are valuing our incapability than pleasant things. Rather than the unpleasant thing, it is our reaction to it all the time in our brain spoils the things. There is no point in remaining hurt. Being so projects, you are weak and easily manipulated… What is so funny in letting situations or some other manipulate you?

Doing so, you are spoiling your present. The present is very precious to build your future, so utilize it to the best before it becomes past!

All we need to learn is to move on in life understanding the negativity… Carry the learnings of your past like a king in a chariot, not your sorrows! Stay happy and keep learning… 

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