Not raising your voice and inaction is mostly considered a negative thing without defining the context. Today we are discussing “Why Not Voicing and Inaction is Powerful and makes more sense at times?”
When some tries to throw blame or say something we don’t like or feel correct! to prove our honesty or justify our thoughts, we feel we should raise our voice and give a reply whether they accept it or not, without worrying about what state of mindset they are in?
People around motivate us by telling us that we should voice our opinion and reply then on, without understanding the situation or whether the other person is in a position to listen or not matters!
Voicing or reacting to a situation or particular person is good, but not all the time.
Here “Not giving a reply doesn’t mean we are coward or not have the capability? ”
Most of the societal learning we have so far teaches only to react and voice irrespective of the situation! This is why most relationships are broken and lives are also lost!
Say what is the point of voicing in front of a fool when he is working hard to justify himself?
We should voice out, but I think sometimes inaction or not responding is the best action, which gives opportunity to keep up inner peace and to assess the overall situation..
When you act and voice in a space you aren’t supposed to, this will worsen the situation than not voicing, here voice becomes noise!!
Just because someone questions your inability to respond doesn’t mean you are ineffective. To be called wise one should know when to act or voice and when one shouldn’t… What is the point of voicing in front of a fool? Doing so you also become a fool!
Try to understand that you are not here to prove to somebody what you can, as your life is to make meaning out of time gifted to you. So don’t waste time voice to prove you are right! It’s not your duty to keep proving to everyone about what you are! Instead of directing your efforts to prove you are right, do the right thing! Remember the fact “your actions speak more than your words”
In an attempt to prove your majesty you are losing yourself and you are failing to hear your inner voice and rather all the time you only let someone’s voice control your thoughts and reactions. Don’t let someone control your thoughts! If you are allowing it, it means you don’t have control over yourselves and you are a slave to your surroundings as they are controlling you.
My dear friends, What is so fun about being a slave?
Listening and Learning from others is good, but not raising voice in the place it doesn’t need or to people who aren’t eligible for it. In these cases not voicing or inaction is the best action.. Most relationships break not understanding this.. Irrational actions and voicing only leads to destruction, pain and suffering to others as well to ourselves..
I THINK WE SHOULD PRACTICE HOW TO STAY NOT VOICING AND INACTION OR in simple WITHDRAWAL.. Withdrawal with awareness is a sign of wisdom. One needs to practice this, it is not easy as it appears! You got to train your mind, it’s not that you withdraw physically and in thoughts you are still reacting and voicing a situation! This might sound spiritual as most monks do introspect and practice throughout their life about withdrawal, not voicing unnecessarily. But remember it helps.
Untimely action always leads to destruction how good it might be. Just remember this point! Here I don’t mean you should voice or act, but know the situation and the person’s state of mind!! Every word we speak has immense power and that shouldn’t be wasted!
When to act and when not to is an art we all should learn. This is a positive thing…
It is not so easy to stay back calm without reacting inside or outside.. As our senses control us. But, practising this leads to the great discovery of true self!