Get over endless Self Pity. It is time to get to know your true self and seek your passion…
Why direct your energy on analyzing others’ shortcomings? Overcome the fear of identifying your mistakes.
All we do is talk about acquiring great skills and smart ways to achieve progress in our life. Are we really successful? To an extent maybe, but not completely! In this treacherous world, we build a cocoon around ourselves and proclaim that we are pure-hearted, truthful and honest. Is it really so? We are what we believe. But is just ‘belief’ enough? Is it not possible that we have failed to evaluate ourselves, our weaknesses, honestly. Somewhere, lost in delusions, laziness and self-pity has crawled into our nature and has merged with our character. So when one points out our fault, we fume with anger.
let’s be realistic. No one is ever perfect in this imperfect world. Pointing out others’ faults is not going to be doing any good to us! But thinking or analyzing oneself would be wiser and help to shape one’s character and individuality. One way to start in this direction is to question ourselves – “when I fail, what is the reason? Is it me or other factors influencing my trials? Is it my ego? Well, casting ego aside, what else is affecting/ influencing me?”
Realization Alone is Not Enough
The realization of mistakes and weaknesses tend to usually put us into thinking how not only one is affected, but also how people and the environment around us are affected. There is no exception to committing mistakes. Everyone does! But directing energy towards overcoming that weakness to make it stronger is what makes a successful person.
What’s next? One might argue that the shortcoming has been identified and one shall put efforts to it. It’s all resolved. Really? How much committed are we in implementing correction measures?
The question arises – are we so self-centered that we cut off slack to ourselves and try to escape from our mistakes/shortcomings?
Justification for an action to escape facing our weakness – is it really the right thing to do? How honest we really are? How often do we assess, scrutinize and evaluate in-depth our failures?
The answer lies in an honest self-analysis. Analyze situations, consequences and effects of an action honestly and without the fear of accepting mistakes – this is what is important. It helps us grow as a person. With an open mind, welcome criticism from the ones you trust. Being strong enough to analyze constructive criticism and modify weakness into a strength. After all, we are all born to succeed. Committed efforts and positive feedbacks are the boosters that drive us towards success. The harder one works, the sweeter are the fruits of success. Amplify your spirits and spread positivity around! Shun laziness and set an example for your kids, dear and near ones, society, and humanity!
Time to Awaken the true self in you …
Awaken the true self in you. Believe in your Unique strengths, keep up your spirit, honesty and route your efforts with no drain of enthusiasm and commitment!
My dear friends, life is too short and precious for regrets. The day we are born is the day when we start our journey towards death…Make it a wonderful journey. Set an example for people around you to draw inspiration, joy, and happiness!
Hurry up, you are never too late! Start burning your energy to perceive your passion…
Success lies learning from mistakes and not repeating them.
You begin your journey towards success the day you accept your weakness and make it your strength…
Let’s start and make a contribution to the world and give a reason to be remembered long after we are gone!!
Note: I thank Mrs. Prashanthi for the great edits to the article as well as to my thoughts in drafting the article..
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